I have a 55 year old friend of mine who lives in India. Every Monday, he goes to an American karaoke bar and sings a few tunes. He doesn’t have the best voice in the world, but it is certainly a powerful one.
After his first number, he buys a handful of people around him a round of drinks. Over the course of a few weeks from when he started, he’s become the guy that everybody knows.
Even in India, a place far more conservative than our United States (and the rest of the western world), he’s been able to pick up several women under thirty at that bar.
That’s because he embodies confidence and makes his presence felt. As a result, he has social status. At that bar, he’s near the top of the pecking order. It’s a mindset that he has cultivated, and one that is accurately sent out as his image. The two cannot be separated. And guess what: he is often dating younger women.
No matter who you select, she’s looking for some type of demonstration of the pecking order. You’re expected to be at the top because you’re older. Those at the top take care of the ones underneath him. Don’t mistake this to mean you pay for everything. It’s not like you have to pay for her college tuition.
Just a demonstration is all that’s required. It shouldn’t look like a demonstration, either.
My friend has found a place that, for him, works well. He’s able to demonstrate his authority and youthfulness among all age groups. I think you’ll benefit in finding the same.
Some bars, coffee shops, and even something like night classes, would have a varied age group.
Of course, it isn’t necessary to go “somewhere.”
If you’re confident in yourself, you’ll be able find women anywhere. But, for the sake of practice, it’s a good idea to find place where you can become a regular and befriend a few people (yes, even men) younger than you are.
One more thing to consider is that there are some women who are more likely to disregard the age gap than others.
In my experience, the more intelligent the woman, the more likely mature the man she dates. It’s not an inalterable rule, obviously, but it’s a good starting point to find receptive girls. Also, the more “alternative” she is (in the way she dresses and what she believes in), the more likely she’ll overlook the age difference.
A vegetarian, for example, has an alternative mindset.
Ask yourself, “Why am I seeking out a younger woman?” I know, the real answer is because you and I both want a smoking hot chick in our beds so we can say, “I’ve still got it.”
Besides that, find some other answers for yourself.
What are you looking for?
Come up with some good answers that ring true for you, and seek those types of women out. If you have a clearer goal, it’s easier to attain.
It took me a long time to figure out how to date and attract younger women, and how to make them feel that powerful physical and emotional response called ATTRACTION…
I can’t tell you how much I wish I could have known what I teach when I was younger. It’s taken me literally YEARS to put all the pieces together, and I invite you to take advantage of the time, effort, energy, and money I’ve invested to discover, refine, and organize all of the step-by-step techniques I’ve put together for the Dating Younger Women program.
It will give you a SOLID foundation for thinking and behaving like a guy who NATURALLY attracts women.
Next, we will discuss how to regain Alpha-Male CONFIDENCE. Stay tuned.